5. They exhaust you emotionally
After every encounter or conversation, you feel drained, confused, sad, or angry… even if you can’t explain exactly why.
Advice: If your body and mind ask you to distance after being with someone, listen to them.
6. They make you doubt yourself
A bad person doesn’t need to yell or insult. It is enough that it sows insecurity. Question your decisions, your ideas, your way of thinking or being.
Advice: If you start to distrust yourself just because that person suggests it, it’s time to set limits.
7. He plays the victim all the time
He is never to blame. He always finds how to justify his mistreatment or his mistakes. If you demand something, she says that you are attacking her or that you are making her suffer.
Advice: Those who constantly victimize themselves so as not to assume their actions, manipulate your empathy.
8. Their presence changes your energy (for the worse)
There are people who, without saying much, darken your spirits. You feel tension when they are close. You have to measure your words and walk carefully so as not to generate conflict.
Advice: Your intuition is never wrong. If you feel persistent discomfort, it is a warning sign.
🔍 How to detect this type of person in time
Listen to your body and your emotions.
If something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore it. Emotional discomfort is a form of warning.
Look at patterns, not isolated moments.
We all have bad days, but if a person always does you wrong, that’s no coincidence.
Ask yourself: Do I feel better or worse after talking to this person?
That simple question reveals a lot more than you might think.
Consult with someone you trust.
Sometimes we are so wrapped up that we do not see what others do perceive clearly.
Set limits without guilt.
You don’t need to justify yourself to get away from someone who doesn’t treat you well.
✨ Always remember this:
Bad people don’t always scream. Some smile when they slowly destroy you.
Never confuse closeness with love, or habit with a healthy bond. Whoever loves you, does not harm you.
